When in doubt, say sorry to the abusers

When you're doubting yourself again. ( Long story). Simply say sorry to the abuse.

Watch the response. And all doubt goes. Put the kettle on and dance again, before slamming the door on the abusers. Simple days.

Love you babe xx

We loved the snow for many reasons. Not least it slows down the abuse. Lol

Stay safe everyone. And trust yourself. Especially as you have over 120+ years experience 

The dafthermits xx

Strange, but restores trust

Have always said. We loved storms . You always find out what's going on around you.

So, hurt my back a few weeks back. After being in bed for 2 weeks ( good diet).

I heard someone outside Molly ( bus our home).

I managed to get up and went outside.

It was a guy from Glasgow.

He was talking pictures. Got chatting.

Then I collapsed. Hurt my head etc.

After an hour the guy left.

He kept asking if I was ok. I said yes,yes.

After he left crawled back into bed.

Yesterday someone I know called in. 

He explained the tourist had called in. He was really worried.

Fuck , blew me away.

Not collapsed since the last year Mel was alive. Collapsed 2 times that year ( can't think why).

I never got his number. But after recent events. It restored so much.

We hope to see you again.

Hugs from the dafthermits xx

A storm came calling

When that wee voice comes and you have no choice but to speak out. After 64 years you know it's time.

You ready yourself for the coming bullshit. The hate etc floods in on the back o smiles.

Yet, you have no choice.

Being spat at. Etc simply whispers nae worries.

Many thanks tae, Alun, John, Stefan, Paul, Stephan, Stevie, Anna, George,Big and wee Jan, 

In the darkness o the storm hope always pops up. 

One o many reasons why I love picking winkles.

My medication meditation. When you look back tae home. You think you'll never manage that 5 mile walk wae 50kg on your back. But true friends whisper . And you get back up. And carry on.

Speaking out is hardly ever easy. But that's what makes it write/right

Stay safe, and dance

The dafthermits xx

Ps. Many thanks tae the 3 Polish brothers that called in yesterday. Dropping off Polish sausage etc and a wee bottle o Jack Daniels.

Looking forward tae seeing you aw again in the Spring.