SHOCKED ( naw nothing shocks us anymore)when so many people are shocked as it comes to them. we heard nothing but" Silence" or even better Abuse as I/we spoke up and out. Aye , nothing will ever change. Till it hits home. I/we will speak out and value our hard earned peace. hugs from the dafthermits xx

How we had so many many Lovely days. I will never understand. But will be eternally grateful. 

Love n light 

The dafthermits xx is 

Dealing with Groomers

Meet Dylan first home was with a nurse and fireman. He was badly abused ( long story).

He protected us from many abusers. . 

Bear baiters

Bear baiters, or sick fucks. Especially when they get angry because the bear etc etc get angry.

I hear time after time o sick fucks paying people to harm someone or an animal for their pleasure.

As a couple wee had many fucking bear baiters turn up. Then as we were confused and started arguing. They smiled.

Aye, we've got a few stories.

And we will write more about them.

Dylan was amazing at spotting them. Being brought up in an abusive family.

Hugs xxx

Move on.. ( fuck off) we say.

Being told " you need to move on" especially when it comes from some abusive cunt. Hurts.

Aye, hurts.

A week after Mel died. From under a rock came a voice.

You need to move on.

We know what you're after.

Being told to not look back. 

Our reply " fuck off".

We have no choice. We have Tae watch abusers pass. Everyday.

In a smell. The abusers climb out.

A name brings back more abuse and trauma.

Aye we both suffered abuse and trauma all our life's.

Whether it was because Mel was English working in a nursing home in Helensburgh.

As kids. Mel being shagged by her dad. Me battered by both parents. Emotionally and mentally. Mel had all three.

Aye, we fucking moved on.

As I've said Tae a few true friends.

Fuck knows how we managed Tae grab so much happiness. As yet another fucker crawled to play their game.

Aye , Don't fucking tell us about fucking moving on.

I have totally shut down for the past week. Recovering. But We fucking will get back up.

We will bimble on for every. You sad bastard's.

Love n light 

The dafthermits xx

Toxic people

Dealing with toxic people, seems to be a full-time job.

But have the courage to say " fuck it". And the more you speak out. Suddenly all around silence. And happiness returns.

Love and hugs

The dafthermits xx

ANGER ISSUES

While we went through discrimination, abuse etc.

So often we were told, by people looking doon their noses at Mel/ us.

" You, have anger issues".

They same people rage. When their holidays are delayed etc. 

Aye write/right.

Pish. " FUCK Off"

That comes from all the clan.

Forgiveness my arse. Abusers often bring this up. Just so it's swept under the carpet. As we are told. Bimble on.

Fuck you, and the horse you rode in on. Before, during and since.

Wonderful day. In Highlands a wee robin called round. Simple xx

Hugs from us the dafthermits xx

Dylan. The gatekeeper. Rescued from a nurse and fireman in Brampton. Miss you son xx and thanks xx

Selective mustisim

After recent events. I have reached a point. Where I have completely shut down. I just want to get our story out there. 

We were just a couple, who cared, who were complete mugs.

After Mel was killed I have struggled. Tried to carry on. Being caring etc. but now . No longer. Tired of hitting our heads against brick walls. Tired of a abuse, discrimination etc etc..

Love the dafthermits. Two mugs