Hit the follow button to follow the book. Tidedancers. Hugs from the dafthermits xx

Saturday, 8 March 2025

HOW do you find out what someone truly thinks of you.. over the years we were asked " do you go to the local pub ?. " . simply say. used to. but we were banned !! and wait. their response will tell you all you need to know.

A few years back when the smoking ban came in.

We stopped going to pubs, cafes etc .

Got fed up standing outside in the rain.
So when asked the question. We/I simply wait.


WHY, were you banned. And before you can reply.

We're you fighting?
Did you get caught stealing?
Etc
Etc

Answering " no"

Simply, smile as they get angry with us/me.

Saying "why ,then."

Control. And worse. But thanks for that. Saves us/me a lot of precious time. BYE.

Result 

Peace 

The enemy within at the Scratchy heed film studio.

So . We met this guy. And despite alarms going off in our heads. We welcomed into our home.


Things went strange yesterday.( Long story).


The I remembered something he had said when we first met. He is friends with a copper.

Funny that seeing as WE are going after compensation from police Scotland and police UK.

Won't post a picture off him. But Will be giving our friends a heads up.


So so sad.




Dylan would like a word. Next time you pass.

The Scratchy heed film studio .Working the tide and getting ready for Mo...

Friday, 7 March 2025

The Scratchy heed film studio. closed.






Over the years. This simple sign caused us endless bollocks.




We aw have the right. Even travellers.

Thursday, 6 March 2025

One of the saddest things that haunts me. hearing Mel end up SCREAMING. I'm/we are Happy


One of the saddest things that still haunts me.
Hearing Mel end up Screaming!!.

At various people, From her family to my family.


Dr's, nurses, etc etc etc.


Swearing and crying as they said over and over.

( Even up to a few days before she Died).

How CAN you be happy living in this thing ( from Molly to tents, caves to boats. ( Our simple happy homes).


How can you be happy, living like a tramp!!!!.


How can you be happy living with HIM !!!!!.

How can you be HAPPY etc etc.


( Biting my lip, so I didn't get jailed and she DIED in a PROPER home etc etc etc.

" Fuck off you abusing***** we and all the clan say".


Mon sexy, coffee?.

Yes boo boo.

Result peace and happiness the result. As we walked away.

Take care everyone 


The dafthermits xx 

Saturday, 1 March 2025

Tidedancers. New update

Old man, trying to keep promise to his dead wife.

Was reading this wee book. Mel loved to write. She was self taught. ( long story). but another thing I admired about her.).


Often and I mean often. 1,000,'s o times people have said. You two should write a book.

Smiling as Mel was sat writing. I would reply. We are and we love it.



Balanced diet, often we/I get asked, what do you do for food. do you eat a balanced diet. will always reply.



Often living in an old bus etc. especially when we're miles from shops etc..


How do you get food, my favourite question is 

" Do you eat a balanced diet? It's really important?".


My usual reply:
"Aye, of course.

And totally agree.

Every day.


We eat a vegan ( not too keen, can be quite bitter)  
With 2 vegetarians ( ma gran always said veg was important.)
And huge meat eater.


Happy dafthermits hermits/hermits)."


Usually the person asking.

Looks confused. Lol


Stay safe.

Mel always said, lol. " You make people think.". 


Monday, 17 February 2025

R.E.M.E charity

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The Corps




huge hugs to oor friend. like me he's ex R.E.M.E. Stevie he sent me some supplies. A true brother I would die for





Love you brother xx

Many thanks to the Evri driver Ally up here in the Highlands. he helped me solve the mystery stolen parcel. and Aye, will start to use your company again. respect.



Many thanks to the Evri driver Ally. For helping me find the stolen parcel.




And huge hugs to customer service at Amazon. For the gift.


Got it touch to explain I found the parcel. Wanted to pay back the refund.


The beauty off this wee bit of fun and games.


Found out my wife was right about watching our back.


Turned out parcel was at the guys house who attacked me. Lol.





Margaret and Jim the owners off Aardvark estate would be raging.


Both off them are dead now. But they showed my wife and myself respect. Annoyed so many lol.


Jim like myself was expecting forces.


Gone but never forgotten xxx

Abuse ???. Some stuff that has happened since Mel was killed.or is it what we deserve for being travellers???

Told police wife was killed. 

Result. Silence 

Drug raped twice ( reported it the police . No response 

Attacked by fisherman down at Culkein Drumbeg.


( We knew him for years. I simply asked him after a visit. When he left our home. " Please don't go on about how much you hate the English).


He attacked me. With a tin of paint.


Result 


Concussion for 10 days.
Result after speaking up. Silence.


Attacked twice by a guy down the road. Second time there was a witness.


Police arrived.

Result, nothing. They convinced me not to press charges. I then phoned them up and told them I had changed my mind.


Got a phone call to say they would call back.


That was weeks ago.

Result Silence.


A few other things have happened but can't be bothered writing anymore.



Travellers justice. Does not exist.


Then we're told shut up. Or move on..



Fuck that we say. We will speak out louder.


Stay safe 


The dafthermits xx 



Thursday, 13 February 2025

Fuck it,




Lol had some grief about this wee sign in the bus.


Fuck sake nothing changes.


It is a quote from the "Deer hunter" and amazing film.


It is the scene. A squaddie in full dress uniform is standing at the bar.


A load o idiots are drinking getting ready to head over to Vietnam. And are all happy. They see the soldier and start shouting hero etc etc. get that man a drink.


His response.


" Fuck it" . Within seconds they turn on him and threaten him. Lol.



Aye brother "FUCK IT".


Stay safe brother. And hugs 

Monday, 27 January 2025

Travellers tale. We set off to find work. Headed from Exeter to Newbury. in 2 days we were stopped by Police over 30 times. Discrimination, bating,abuse etc. Mel and Dylan Angry and Scared were no that daft. We made it. Mel got a carerijob at Stockcross Newbury. Me Woodcrafts. Still living that way. Maybe more tired. But help when we can . simple life. picture is Sioux A Leyland Leopard

Travellers tale.

kid/child can't cope with horrors on phone. Shit, Tim. why the fuck are we on guard duty. Doing the rounds and checking the perimeter of the Army College. Aborfield. Wokingham.Aged 16

We're sorry Mrs Thatcher.




Morning Mrs Thatcher.




Told by many I/We don't ever get angry. our reply and response.. REALLY, taxi !!!!!!!!!





Thankfully we did get ANGRY.


It was one of many reasons I fell in love with Mel. 


Beautiful lazy day here at The Scratchy heed film studio xx

Stay safe

SHOCKED ( naw nothing shocks us anymore)when so many people are shocked as it comes to them. we heard nothing but" Silence" or even better Abuse as I/we spoke up and out. Aye , nothing will ever change. Till it hits home. I/we will speak out and value our hard earned peace. hugs from the dafthermits xx



How we had so many many Lovely days. I will never understand. But will be eternally grateful. 


Love n light 

The dafthermits xx is 

Balance is always the key. just off to get small boat's ready. too go and earn some money on the beach. stay safe. the dafthermits xx



Balance is the key. Is so many levels.

Saturday, 25 January 2025

Mr President, Aye you ya prick. ma Scottish granny wants a quiet word wae you. she says meet Dylan the dug.



Mr dickhead. Hope you're ok. Ma Scottish granny wants a quiet word with you Sir.


Oor address is


Mel and Andy 

The blackbus 

The Scratchy heed film studio 

Faerie Bridge 

Drumbeg

Iv274nj


Tel:

Please phone Sir after 9pm. We're late risers and waiting for our giro.


Take care.



Smokers rights? aye, right. aw one way. in the rain we stand. taxed taxed and more. Happy at least we don't have to sit with a vegan. lol


Strange as a smoker. You sit happy.

Then a non smoking Vegan appears.

When they tell you " I'm vegan, non smoking,gay **** ".



We say. " Fuck did you not see the notice by the pay and display. ?.  


We take all major and minor cards.


As they storm outside.


Shouting 


" Fuck that's not FUCKING right just because I'm Vegan. Fucking travellers, they should be more understanding, more caring. I'm not coming back here. And get A FUCKING wash and job"



Fuck all we said was. 




" This is a non vegan home" sorry it's the law. It's oor hame/home." You'll have stand outside. And pay vegan tax . Etc".


Result happy dafthermits xxx





What do you think Cus?

Happy R.E.M.E days. working under Antars wae the M.S.O my Russian,Polish, Italian brothers. learnt so much from them Men me 18 most o them 60+ . magic days at School.



Loved working on these.


The mighty Antar. And when an abuser calls by. " Gran . And Dylan at oor side. 

We love free speech. especially in these times. As a visitor to the Scratchy heed film studio, calls in... Aye 100%.



When a visitor to the Scratchy heed film studio calls in.


Within a minute.


Free speech.


" Your flue pipes wrong"
" Do you work"

Etc etc. head patted.
Spat at etc.


Our Question.

" I see you believe in free speech. Are we right ?"..

Their reply " YES"
Our Reply.


"GRAN, Dylan!!!!!".


Confusion swirls round the home. Aye, oor HOME.


Then peace returns as the visitor leaves with a sore groin and dug attached.


Happy days 
Happy dafthermits xxx


Take care stay safe xx

Setting the breakfast table. for a Scottish, Russian, German, English Breakfast. The most important meal of the day



Breakfast at the Scratchy heed film studio.

Far right/ Far Left. On the rise. simply part of being Human. Turn a blind eye. if you want.



Anyone,that has had dealings with Either can see the coming storm. More worried about money than helping to earn/help. Fine. Alarms going off all over. In simple conversation, the hidden hatred bubbles. In those eyes we see the truth....


Aye, from 130 combined years experience. We know longer doubt. We know. 


So AYE, for what ever the excuse. You sit and watch sport etc. As the smiling far right/ far left storm. Feel safe to speak and act out their HATRED.



Stay safe


The dafthermits xx 


We know fuck aw. We know 


Friday, 24 January 2025